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Are we in love or lust

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Did you know that falling in love actually happens over time, and the journey from initial attraction to deep romantic love is a predictable course that depends on many different factors? Love is an intense feeling of affection toward another person. It's a profound and caring attraction that forms emotional attachment. On the flip side, lust is a strong desire of a sexual nature that is based on physical attraction.

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Lust can transform into deep romantic love, but it usually takes time. Helen Fishera well-known researcher on the topic of romantic love, has identified three stages to falling in love in her excellent book Why Him?

Lust is the first stage of falling in love. It's driven by desire.

The sex hormones play an important role in this stage. According to experts, this stage may begin immediately and can last up to two years.

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When you spend hours daydreaming about your lover; when you lose sleep or your appetite, you know you're in this phase. The neurohormones that play an important role in the attraction or infatuation phase are dopamine, norepinephrine, and serotonin. These are the hormones that send our heart racing, and might actually make us feel like we are going insane. This is the commitment hormone. It's released during orgasm and believed to promote bonding when adults are intimate.

The theory goes on that the more sex a couple has, the Are we in love or lust the bond becomes. Therefore, if you are not interested in a serious committed relationship, Dr. Fisher advises not to casually sleep with someone, because you are likely to bond with the individual with whom you have an orgasm with. Basically we are kidding ourselves when we say we are going to keep it casual.

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Our brain is wired to bond and connect with a partner with whom we experience pleasure. This type of love is not just an emotion, it's also a craving. There is a strong emotional craving, the love drive is even stronger than the sex drive. At this stage, instead of a split between love and lust, your new path lies in the balancing of the two: The happiest couples are the ones that can maintain a balance between lust and love.

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Enjoy the journey of self-discovery relating with someone for whom you lust. If the chemistry is right, it will transform into romantic love!

The more you bring love, honesty, passion and romance into your own self-relationship, the easier it will be to attract someone who shares those same qualities. If you have a burning question regarding this topic and the three stages of falling in love, or a thought you'd like to share, leave a comment below!

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